How to be a genuine friend

Austin Gardner • April 6, 2024

Here are some simple things that make a genuine friend:



1. Show Up:

Being a friend means being there, not just physically, but paying attention. A true friend is there to share the moment when things are good or bad.


2. Listen Well:

Good friends don’t just hear you; they really listen. They care about your words and want to understand your thoughts and feelings.


3. Celebrate Each Other:

Friends should be happy for each other. When your friend succeeds, you should cheer them on, not be jealous. Real friends make each other’s victories even sweeter.


4. Handle Problems Together:

Friendships aren’t always easy, but a loyal friend works through challenges with you. They want to fix problems and keep the bond strong.


5. Forgive and Forget:

Friends mess up sometimes, but holding grudges doesn’t help. Real friends forgive and move on, understanding that everyone makes mistakes.


6. Be Trustworthy:

Trust is super important in friendships. A good friend keeps their promises, sticks to their commitments, and stands by you when things get tough.


7. Give Encouragement:

Friends should lift each other. When feeling down, a genuine friend encourages and helps you see your strengths.

Let’s be the kind of friends who make life's journey a bit more awesome for everyone!


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