Stop Trying to Be Good
Grace-Powered Transformation for Ministry Leaders

You got into ministry because you love Jesus. Somewhere along the way, that love turned into a checklist.
More sermons. More visits. More consistency. More effort. And underneath it all, a quiet fear that you are not measuring up.
I get it. I spent decades there myself.
The Trap We Fall Into
Here is what nobody tells you in seminary: trying harder does not produce holiness. It produces exhaustion.
We read passages about being holy and we white-knuckle our way toward some impossible standard. We preach grace on Sunday and live under law the rest of the week.
The result? Burned-out pastors. Bitter missionaries. Leaders running on fumes and calling it faithfulness.
> "The Christian life was never meant to be powered by fear, pressure, or performance. It was meant to be lived from being loved first."
Grace Changes Everything
Galatians 3:3 "Are ye so foolish? having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?"
Paul asked this question two thousand years ago. We still have not learned the answer.
You did not earn your way into the kingdom. You will not maintain your standing by effort either. The same grace that saved you is the grace that sustains you.
Rest does not come after you fix yourself. Rest comes first.
When you finally believe that God is not disappointed in you, something shifts. You stop performing. You start abiding. And real transformation begins.
What This Means for Your Leadership
Leaders who rest in grace lead differently. They do not need to control every outcome because they trust the One who holds all outcomes. They can admit weakness because their identity is not tied to looking strong.
Loved people become loving people. And loved leaders raise up loved teams.
Go Deeper
This short post barely scratches the surface. If you are ready to explore what grace-powered transformation really looks like in your life and ministry, I wrote a longer piece that unpacks this in detail.
Read the full article here: The Big Leap of Faith: Believing God Loves You Exactly as You Are
You can also catch more on the Followed by Mercy podcast or subscribe to the blog at waustingardner.com/blog.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it wrong to pursue holiness and discipline as a leader?
Not at all. The issue is not effort itself but the fuel behind it. Discipline that flows from being loved produces fruit. Discipline driven by fear of rejection produces burnout.
How do I know if I am leading from grace or from performance?
Ask yourself this: If I failed publicly tomorrow, would I still believe God loves me the same? If the answer feels uncertain, you may be operating from performance. Grace anchors your identity before your results.
Where can I learn more about grace-centered leadership?
Start with The Big Leap of Faith for a deep dive into resting in God's unconditional love. You will also find practical encouragement on the Followed by Mercy podcast.











