Here on Austin's Pen you can find several articles and studies that might bless you. I have been writing and organizing in order to bless you.

• I have written "Our Love Story!" You can click on it and read that here These stories have been translated to Spanish for my friends.
• If you truly want to be Biblical then you don't listen to gossip, you go to the source, you don't trust anyone till you investigate. There is a Biblical procedure. You can find info here. After you read any article you can go back and click on links to get more.
• Somewhere along the way God's people have forgotten The More Excellent Way of Scripture. Go here and read about love. Follow along and do a study.
• Why not take the time to study up on language learning, culture shock, and learning to do cross cultural ministry here.