When we keep a record of wrongs and point the finger, the Holy Spirit is grieved. (See 1 Corinthians 13:5; Isaiah 58:9.) We may not feel a thing—at first.
R. T. Kendall, Sensitivity of the Spirit: Learning to Stay in the Flow of God’s Direction (Lake Mary, FL: Charisma House, 2015).
Other interesting articles about judging
The Three Steps of Church Discipline
Sizing up everyone but themselves
WHEN BOB HAS A PROBLEM WITH EVERYONE, BOB IS USUALLY THE PROBLEM
What do you do with the accusation?